being "bald" or hairy...

Naomi • Livin' the single life

The guy I'm with just told me he like it bald, and that I should get waxed. But I'm only 19 with basically no experience, I'm not ready to have a stranger wax me, nor do I have the pain tolerance. But when I shave it get razor bumps and sooooo so so many ingrown hairs. I shave downwards, only one direction, and I exfoliate before. I don't know what to do :( I told him I'm not getting waxed and shaving everything is painful too but idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🌟🌟 🌟🌟 update : You ladies are seriously amazing, thank you. I do like shaving the upper part (?) so if you all have any more recommendations for reducing ingrown hairs it would be so appreciated!!! ♥😊