Praying my time is coming

Ok ladies. For those of you who struggled to conceive, no matter how long it took... What made you successful? I WILL make this my year to finally have a baby, and would like to hear your stories. SO and I have had no luck for going on four years in August (using no protection, just expecting it would happen eventually), and when I finally got his commitment on the idea of truly "trying" for a baby, I began tracking my ovulation and still no luck. I cannot express the heartbreak, as I'm sure you all know how it feels.. and it is so heart wrenching to see my friends and family right before me getting pregnant left and right. Especially watching the ones pretend to be excited for the public, and then make horrid comments to me on how they never wanted this child, they did it for their husband, pregnancy "fucking sucks," and claiming their child to be this horrid thing taking over their body. I cannot even begin to explain how hurtful these words are, especially when they know the struggles I've been facing. So I am here to find encouragement, to send baby dust to others struggling, and to hear your stories.