It's either you or the baby

If something happens to you if you have a baby would you take the chance???

Ok now that you've finally conceived the doctor said if you have the baby it's life threatening, would you abort it, or have it?

I knew a lady who was a diabetic and the doctor told her if she had a baby it was very risky, either she would die, the baby would die or they both would, but she wanted one so badly, and her husband wanted one too. She had the baby, lost a lot of blood, she was ok for a year then she started having problems again.

This is a hard one I probably would have a family member who was willing to be a surrogate to have the baby.