not everything has to be sexualized

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i say ot again because im relly ged up with it. NOT EVERYTHING HAS TO BE SEXUALIZED. i read so many post on here and just dont understand. i really cant understand. it is ok of guys who are in a relationship talk to other girls. it is ok for girls who are in a relationship to talk to other guys. because it doesnt have to be sexualised. it is ok for minors to wear clothes that show skin, because children shouldnt be sexualized. children or mimors can have sleepovers with the opposite gender because it doesnt need to involve something sexual. it is ok for woman and man, in a relationship or not, to wear as much revealing clothes as they want because it doesnt need to be sexualized. can someone please explain to me why society is like that? i really dont understand and im so done. please tell me there is someone who thinks like me. but also commend if you think differently and why.