Hair down there

We've all heard of the infamous "ingrown hair" problems people get from waxing and shaving in pits or down below. However, after a while I decided to let it regrow.

Can I get some tips if any of you regrew to see what worked for you? The hairs seem thicker than they would naturally be, and there is a variety of lengths of hair. It's uncomfortable and I'm worried about the hairs showing through my swimsuit. Also, I've gotten so worried about the ingrowns I've heard so much about that I use a tweezer to take some of them out...

Help me please!!