Ok so my boyfriend has gone down on me twice, but has yet to get me all the way there. It was my first time going that far sexually but he isn’t a virgin so I figured he’d do just fine. The first time I really enjoyed myself even though I didn’t come and just chalked it up to it being his first time with me and figured we’d get it next time. Next time came, but I did not. Sometimes I start to get close and then I think he switches something up and I lose it. I’m kinda shy when we’re getting down and I can’t bring myself to say anything in the moment to tell him what I liked and didn’t like because I get too embarrassed. Then when he realizes he didn’t get me all the way there he gets really down on himself and feels really inadequate. How can I help him out? I don’t want to fake it because I feel like that would be detrimental in the long run but I’m nervous he’s not going to figure it out