Is this normal?? My boyfriend and I are kinda curious though he is more on the worried side

Soo recently I've lost my virginity but the first time I never bled but the second I did and the third I bled... a lot... and it's always hard to put it it's like having the feeling of losing my virginity (the same pain I mean) every time I have sex... the pain at first really hurts but as soon as it goes in after awhile the pain stops... but after we've realized I've bled a lot, now I know I'm not in my period and that people usually say the first time hurts but after that it won't but that hasn't been the case well at least for me it hasn't... any insight?... I would appreciate any and everything thank you sooo much!!!