The past few months my husband and I have felt so distant. With his rotation to Korea coming up I was so worried that we have hit a brick wall and this rotation couldn’t have came at a worse time. And part of me was happy that we would have a break from each other. However the last couple of weeks have been marital bliss. From him making an effort to do more to help me and listen to me more to us enjoying sex together. It all started when a couple weeks ago he sat me down and asked if I was happy, because he could tell something has been off with us

I told him I felt like I don’t matter anymore and that our sex life has been non existent. So I came home the next day to a man crying. After he explained that he couldn’t loose me and he doesn’t want us to be unhappy anymore he wants us to give a honest go at trying to fix things before we go to a place we can’t come out of. So I agreed, not really understanding what he meant. The first day of us trying was a simple date night, we went to dinner. It was nice to not have to cook for a change. And little things like this kept adding on. He was listening about my day and making sure he told me I was appreciated. One night he drew me a bath and we had the most passionate sex we have had since before we were married. I have now been sick for 4 days last night I was laying bed when he came in the room sang to me (off key) or wedding song then gave me his vows all over again. In that moment I knew for sure I was falling in Love all over again. I cried so hard knowing how it’s going to be heart breaking to say bye when he leaves. This morning I woke up feeling horrible so he talked me into going to an urgent care. I went found out I have strep throat. After picking up my meds and some soup. I came home to a spotless home and a soup already in the crock pot. He has done nothing but take care of me today. I love this man and I’m so lucky to have someone who loves me as much as he does.

Take my advice work on your marriage daily you don’t want to get in a slump where you’re just going through the motions.