we havent fully been trying simply because of the holidays and we had a miscarriage november 3rd, were told to try again after my period came back. well we only had sex twice and it was after my predicted fertile days. my period wasnt supposed to start until January 6th had spotting 4 days before ( January 2nd ) and then January 4th had a "period" it was light ( TMI ** took 7 - 8 hours to partially fill a pad still wasnt considered full ** TMI ) cramps but not as bad as a normal period. only lasted 2 days and had very very very faint spotting ( barely anything when wiping ) i plan on buying a test soon but dont want to take one too early.