Depressed after an ectopic pregnancy need some advice

So I had an ectopic pregnancy in December and had my surgery a week and 3 days ago and I’m going back to work tomorrow. I work at a drug and alcohol rehab center as a billing person and we have some nasty patients and my coworkers loves to talk about each other. I am dreading to go back to work I’m still depressed and I just hate to go back to work and deal with everyone. My husband and I had been trying for almost 4 years now and has not been successful the stress at my job is taking its toll on me emotionally and I feel like I wanted to quit my job everyday but I also need this job since my husband is going to school to become a nurse and I am the only one that’s currently working since he’s going to school full time. My boss has been supportive throughout the process I just really dislike everyone else at work for the fact that everyone talks about everyone else’s business at the job. I have so much emotion going on. My parents have been supportive of us but I can’t really talk to them about my emotions cause they then becomes so worried. My husband is the same. I have friends but I feel like they really don’t understand what I’m going through I know they all want to try and comfort me but I just get irritated when everyone says “just be patient you’ll have a baby it’s gonna happen”. I know they mean well and normally I wouldn’t take anything to hurt but since my ectopic pregnancy I had been so sensitive.Any advice from someone who has been in my shoes?