Was I assaulted?

So 5 months ago I had a drunken one night stand with a stranger (where I lost my virginity) and after it happened my friend was telling me she thinks I was raped which I don’t think I was but I think I was assaulted but I’m really unsure and confused by it. What do you think:

Basically I went to this guys hotel room and I was really drunk (he was too) and I did want to have sex with him so we started foreplay and we were about to have sex but then I asked him if he had a condom. He said he didn’t and i was like wtf bc back then I assumed all guys would have them. So I kept saying go get one, we can’t do this without one etc. And he was just like nah. I remember at one point literally putting my hands over my vagina bc I was worried he would put it in. He got off me and we cuddled for like a second and then he went back on top of me and kept saying “put it in just put it in” and he also said at one point “it’s already been in” which I don’t think was true but it really scared me. Eventually I put it bc I felt so pressured and bc I was drunk I wasn’t thinking properly and I didn’t really know what to do. So we had sex and the main thing that confuses me is that I was into it and was ok to be having sex but the fact that he wasn’t wearing a condom did make me feel really uncomfortable. So that was the first part and it’s left me so confused as to if I was raped or assaulted or what.

The second part is at the end he was telling me that he was going to cum and he was like asking me where I wanted him to cum etc. And I was like just don’t cum in me and he was like I won’t. And I kept asking “are you cumming” to make sure and he kept saying he wouldnt cum in me but then at the end he got off me, looked at me and said “i just came in you” and that made me feel so violated and horrible. Would that be considered assault bc I didn’t contest to it??

On my way back to my hotel after this had happened my friend was really angry at me and crying (for different reasons) and she also kept saying how she thinks I’ve been raped bc of the cumming thing. I felt so numb and abused after and I remember just sitting on the floor starring at the blood on my leg for ages and it was the weirdest I’ve ever felt. The next few weeks I think I felt ok about it and I looked back at it in a positive way but now I just don’t know I think it was really wrong what happened. Also the other day I was really drunk and started hysterically crying about it to my bf which makes me think this is going to fuck me up. What do you think?