This morning before my boyfriend left for work he said his right testicle is feeling super sensitive. Hes like "you sure you didnt accidentally hurt them last night?" Im like "No babe Id never do that" We played games last night and ordered food, but I know he was just "saying" that, lol. So then he said he just has a lot "built up" aka blue balls. Things have been difficult for us lately just with personal issues going on so we haven't had much sex. Its been 2 weeks and we have only had sex one time during that period. Ive tried to get him in the mood by cuddling him and slowly kissing his neck and getting close, but he doesn't seem interested. I even ask him to shower with me or I invite him in with me. I know he IS interested but... I guess I feel at a loss and somewhat unattractive to him. I am financially struggling and without a car but I just got a new job and Im making good tips. Ladies how do you pick yourself up and pamper yourselves for you/your man?