Jealous friend?

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My friend and I started ttc around the same time. This will be her 2nd and my 1st. We both got a BFP within a week of each other. Hers stuck and I’ve had 3 early miscarriages during the time. She will be due next month and I can’t help but feel sad, jealous, frustrated that this could have been me. Anyone else have similar feelings? I want to be happy for her but it’s hard.

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Yes! I completely understand. I just recently had a MC in August 2017, and I sold all of my baby’s things to a lady that was due 1 days after me.  
I couldn’t help but feel jealous :(

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I know how you feel. I had a miscarriage mid November and by early December two of my best friends told me they were pregnant. They are friends with each other as well and are only a week apart. I’m jealous/sad/angry that I don’t get to experience that with them. I struggle knowing they get to experience pregnancy and I don’t.

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I think it’s okay and normal to feel this way. I have a friend due a week before I was suppose to be due next month and I just have to avoid conversations, fb post and pictures sometimes because it just hurts too much.

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I am in the exact situation! It's such conflicting feelings! My friend is due March 1st. I would have been due late Feb. Its like torture! And it's so sad, we want another baby so badly! Been doing everything we can and praying it will happen soon. I told her I just can't go to her baby shower. She said I wouldn't either if I were in your shoes. I would surely start crying! I often do go home and cry after I see her. This would have been baby # 2 for both of us. I know how you feel!

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oh girl! welcome to the club!! I miscarried at 13 weeks last January, since then both of my best friends have gotten pregnant, one is due in April and the other one Aug... I think what hurts the most is they both knew right away when I got pregnant and when I miscarried but both waited til they were 3 months along before saying anything to me (one told me yesterday am)... I'm so jealous they both are getting to experience what we've been praying and desperate for.... they get to be moms and I can't be happy how I want to be for them. you're not alone girl!