Why Cant I Blow Him

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i feel so bad. but i just cant do it... i have read all the tips, watched all the videos.. even picked a sexy outfit out to dress up in.. i just cant bring my self to do it.. HELP MEEE. feels like hes gonna find a girl who will do it if i dont.

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If he's petty enough to do that then you don't need him.

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a guy who cares more about blow jobs than the person he is with is human trash who you shouldnt be dating.

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you just have to get past the first time then it's all smooth waters from there

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I can’t do it either, it terrifies me ever since I had a boyfriend aged 16 who was really pressuring about it. I have had boyfriends since and all of them are supportive of me.
I saw an awful Facebook comment ‘don’t get down on one knee if you can’t get down on two’ and sent it to my bf to see what he says. He said he will marry me someday and of course doesn’t mind about the BJ thing.
So don’t stress hun and don’t make yourself do anything you’re not comfortable with.
(Yes, maybe one day you will do it, maybe one day I will do it. But maybe we won’t! And that’s fine!)

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How old are you? If I may ask cause that would depend on my answer. I had someone pressure me as well and also pay me for it (I was molested from 11-15) he’s in jail now but most of the guys were supportive in me being hesitant. I just had to tell myself I was comfortable with them to do it and I could or once I got of age if I still couldn’t I drank a little enough to give me a slight buzz and then I was able to as welll

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its not that hes petty. just feel bad that i cant do it..

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