so my husband is a recovering sex addict, and we're going through a dark time since we lost the baby the day before Christmas. so we FINALLY had sex again last night (was AMAZING) and he's on his phone and he's like this guy from high school just sent me this message. literally they haven't spoken since like 9th grade. and he clicks on the video, turns pale, and hands me the phone. it's a super graphic porn video. like GRAPHIC. so husband is digging for his anxiety meds, and I decided imma call the fucker. see this kid and I use to BEST friends. no bad fall out just lost communication. so I call and he's like uh sorry, I thought it was funny. no point getting upset and hung up on me. so am I in the wrong for feeling like it was super inappropriate no matter how funny it was, and that he was disrespectful to both of us? he doesn't know about my husbands addiction but does know we are married and that we recently lost our child. I feel like I'm being over protective and over sensitive. the miscarriage makes me feel like I'm worthless as a wife and mother and that my husband deserves to be with someone who can carry to full term, so it just felt like pouring more salt into the wound.