Ultrasound worry

Sasha • I'm 25, and Married. Pregnant with our princess 💕🎀👑👶🏼

Hi ladies

So I have PCOS, been trying for a baby for 3 years, had 3 miscarriages.... and I found out again we’re pregnant on the 15th December. I took 11 pregnancy tests and every single one came back positive 2 of them were clear blue conception indicators too. I had sore boobs, lower back pain, bad acne, peeing all the time etc. We were understandably worried about this pregnancy and paid £85 for a private ultrasound. The lady told me that she couldn’t see anything at all but my right ovary had appearances of an ectopic pregnancy. So she referred me to my local hospital the very next day. When I got there they did and internal ultrasound and clear as day there was the gestational sac. The lady said I measured only 4 weeks that why it was so hard to find. I went back two weeks later expecting to see a yolk sac and foetal pole. Instead the lady measured me and said I had grown and I was 25mm so about 7 weeks but there was nothing inside. She was explaining id had a blighted ovum and was ready to get me seen by a dr to induce a miscarriage. I asked for a 2nd opinion... this other lady comes in but the same lady scans me, all of a sudden a yolk sac is found but they can’t find a foetal pole, measured me again at 23.5mm. Told me to come back in 10 days. But has put on my notes that it’s a non-viable pregnancy.

Of course I’m worried but I think I’m more annoyed that they can’t seem to tell me how far along I am. Or seem to measure me correctly or even find anything without a second opinion. I still have very strong symptoms I can’t drink tea it makes me nauseous. And every meal time I feel hungry but as soon as I have food in front me I feel sick. Yesterday morning sickness had defo arrived, I’m getting heartburn and my tummy is stretching.

Ladies what’s your view on this? Anyone else had difficulty like this?