Before me and my boyfriend started dating I was pretty wild & wasn’t really settled to be in a relationship. One night I went out with some friends & things got a little crazy & I needed up doing something I shouldn’t of have, I get really bad about it & told him the next day. (Keep in mind that we weren’t dating at this point.) I tell him if he wants to stop talking to me it was ok because it was my fault, but he decided to “forgive” me & told me not to do it again so of course I agree with him & later on we start dating. A couple months after we are arguing like ever couple does & brings up what I did that one night. It’s been a little more than 3 years since we’ve been together & till this day if we get into an argument if brings it up & it’s getting to a point where i feel like he brings it up to bring me down & make me feel bad about it... idk what to do & it’s getting aggravating. help pls