So let me start by saying I have the biggest fear of my son coming here into flu season but not only that SIDS and Meningitis scares the heck out of me. I lost my nephew when he was 3 months due to SIDS . I honestly have one request from all my family and my husbands. Do NOT KISS my newborn in the face ! It's not that freaking hard I told my hubs that's all I ask, considering his family are very heavy heavy smokers. His response is that "I'm not going to tell them they can't kiss the baby". His mother already gets under my skin by trying to talk my husband out of going into the surgery room with me when I have my c section bc she wants to go in 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️. Is it wrong that I don't want my child being kissed in the face !!?? How do I approach this bc I'm to the point I'm about to start hurting feelings .