Baby Showers!

Just curious on who threw the baby shower. I'm expecting baby number 2, & with my first shower I threw the shower my self and paid for everything my self & basically had the shower how I wanted it. (LOL) but this time around I really don't want to plan it my self or even have stress/worry about it 😩 but my friends really aren't in a position to throw it & all my family lives out of state so I was hoping my SO's family (mom or sister) would offer but nothing as come up about it & I don't want to put it on anyone ....