Anyone elsee?

So I stopped taking my birth control (after being on it for 12+ years) last July. I got my period for 3 days in September and 4 days in December and thats it. I missed every other month so far. I get cramping often but no period. Has this ever happened to anyone else? My periods were regular before starting the pull and I stopped it when we knew we were ttc and even though its been less than a year it feels like forever😞 I’m new to this app but i was just wondering if anyone had a similar story