Ok, so I was wondering if it would be rude and wrong for me to throw myself a very small baby shower and only ask for diapers size newborn- size 2 and wipes no huggie brand stuff, and gift cards to amazon.com and babies r us? this will be my 3rd child and second baby shower if I have one. I'll know on the 22nd what we will be having but my husband said don't be expecting to have a baby shower. we donated and gave away majority of our son's stuff when he grew out of it. and I only have very little stuff left from my daughter. and we are very short on money for awhile due to us paying our debt off and our car payment and also building up credit to move out and buy a home of our own. so my question is.... is it wrong of me?