So there’s a guy that I’ve been talking to for about a month now and we have t really gotten physical until recently. I’m 20 years old but I’d never dated or even kissed anyone before. We kissed for the first time on Monday but it ended up turning into a 10 minutes make out sesh. I was at his place and it was getting late so I told him I had to get ready to leave (we had already discussed that I am waiting until I’m married for sex). We were both half asleep on the couch and I could tell he wished I roils stay but he respected my wishes.

Then the next 2 days go by and him and I are supposed to get together. He stands me up the first time because he tells me he had an allergic reaction and went to the ER. The next day I want to see him and make sure he’s ok and him and I plan to get together again and he instead goes to sleep and then goes to the bar because of family issues. He wouldn’t go into detail about it with me. I give him space for about a day and text him to check on him and he says he’s doing better and he will text me the next day. So we text and he’s taking forever to reply and kinda seems out of it. So I call him and he acts like everything fine and he’s cooking dinner with his roommate and he has to call me back later. But he doesn’t call me. So I text him going on about how I just feel like he’s shutting me out and I don’t understand why because he had been so eager to see me wartime the week. He said his family is really just killing his vibe. But I told him I understand that but I don’t appreciate being shut out because he’s going through stuff and that I rush he’d let me be there for him. He said that he won’t shut me out anymore and he won’t let me go.

I just am not sure how to feel. I’m a worrier and I like to know what’s going on. He’s never ignored me like this before. I get he may need space but each time I ask him if that what he needs he says “oh no sweetheart it’s not you”

But then he just goes back to not replying to me. Idk what’s happening

Side note: he has shown genuine interest and pursuit of me up until this week. I have a lot of trust issues from previous situations and he has been so patient through that. He told me he believes that God led us to be together and that he hopes we will eventually build a life together. I have anxiety issues. He also has done this thing before when he says he will call me back and doesn’t and I confronted him and he said he’d stop but he’s still doing it.