TTC question

Porchia

So my partner and I have been doing AI for a few months we had one success which ended in miscarriage in October of 2016. We stopped trying to conceive because I honestly wasn’t ready. Now I’m ready we found a donor in my area however he only dose NI( natural insemination) I know there are a lot of lesbian couples who choose to do things a more natural way. My question is what was your thought process durning sex with your donor how did the process go did you guys talk did you get straight to the sex and leave right after how did you feel while having sex? I’m nervous our insemination date is rapidly approaching and I’m scared