so here is the deal I have been in a eight year relationship with my man but recently we split for about 3 months in that time I found this man I dated him for awhile he was just outta prison and I didn't see our lives headed down the same road so I broke up with him since then me and my man of 8 year has decided to try to work thing out but I really do love this other man and I have been sneaking around seeing him on the regular I really don't know why i cant let him go any advice on my situation would be the greatest help I really have no one to talk to about life