so i have a 10 month old. my sister in law and i do not at all get along. she is toxic and mean and manipulative and i do not want to be anywhere near her... we have had multiple problems in the past including her planning her wedding on my daughters 1st birthday and when i had my baby shower she planned to have her new roof put on her house and got mad at everyone for coming to my baby shower instead of helping her. my husband knows it.... she has told my husband numerous times that it's not fair that he has more than her it's not fair that we have a "nicer" house it's not fair that we have "nicer cars" and pretty much says that we should help them. they wanted (at the time we were talking) to do dinner every sunday and would order 100+ worth of food and tell us to pick it up and never help pay.. my husband and her haven't talked in over a year... the problem is, every time we get into an argument she hears about it through my mother in law and calls him and tries to make nice. my husband and i are taking a break at this point and when he took our daughter last weekend he lied to me about being at her house even though we both agreed we did not want our daughter anywhere near her especially with how she treats her own kids... now that my husband and i are working things out she is back since while we were arguing his mother made him go talk to her... he has told me he doesn't care about anything she has done to me she is his sister and to deal with it... i know she will do something again. and the past 5 times i told him was the last time. this is probably the 10th time... every time i won't do something she tells me to do she will go call his ex girlfriend and become best friends with her to throw it in my face...he also told me that she's done this to every single one of his girlfriends and i've talked to one of his exes who told me she is the reason they broke up, because she couldn't handle his sister...even before we didn't get along she would hate me until december .. in december she would be my best friend and come over every day and tell my husband to buy her kids 300+ dollar presents for christmas ... and then the kids would come back to me and tell me her boyfriend bought the gifts for them...now i'm in a dilemma- do i get back with the father of my daughter and just deal with her AGAIN?! or just leave and start the court process?.... what do i do?????? :(