UPDATE**He makes me uncomfortable

So I’ve been working in the mall. Just this Thursday a older man (45-50ish old) came in the store I work at saying “do you know where Sarah is? Sarah from ORU” and I jokingly said I don’t know which Sarah you are talking about, there are so many here” (because we have 4 Sarah’s).

But anyways this man has one pair of pants in his hand that he wanted to try on so I took him in the back of the store where all the fitting rooms are and open one for him (we keep them locked so I had to unlock it) and he kept asking me questions

I didn’t think of it at the time but they were kinda personal

Where do you go to school?

Do you have a boyfriend?

What’s your religion

How old are you?

Anyways when I told him I was only 19 he kept telling me how mature I act and talk and look for my age and complemented me a lot.... it’s nice to get compliments,but to continuously saying them it gets a little awkward. Anyways he went on and on while I was working for an hour!

Then as soon as it got busy he said goodbye and didn’t buy anything

Anyways I worked again today and saw Sarah who went to oru and I asked her about him and she said he did the same thing to her and didn’t buy anything either... he was there just to talk and she has no idea who he was..

And it got creepier....

He came back looking for me at the mall in the store today and saw me. And asked me more personal questions and told me how my boyfriend does not deserve me and I need to have a mature and older man. He kept talking to me for at the least fourty minutes...

He told me how he talked to a couple other girls at some other store a while ago.. but for him to come in and ask personal questions (which we have no idea who this man is) and tell a 19 year old how mature she is and constantly flirts with us makes me very uncomfortable. Am I being over dramatic? Is he just trying to be a nice human being

It’s just weird for me to have a man come in and makes a special trip to the mall to talk to girls

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Thank you everyone for the advice!

I talked to my manager and she said she would keep an eye out on him. I was wanting to go to security but by the time I got off work Sunday they closed early.

I worked today and was going to go by after work...

During my shift He came in AGAIN except he was with his wife... the weirder part was that they came in for an exchange and he acted like he had never been in the store before... it was very strange. I said hello to greet his wife and he just walked away trying to seem like he was looking around and trying to avoid contact. (Which I honestly didn’t mind) it just was weird how different he acted with his wife.

I was able to talk to the mall security and they just told me to kick him out of the store and if he doesn’t leave then call mall security and they will kick him out of the mall...