so my husband and i have friends that we were pregnant at the same time with our first kids. we got pregnant again at the same time but i lost my son at 16 weeks in July. They had their daughter in oct. my husband and i are ttc again but i am now having health problems. we were at our friends first sons b-day party today and the husband asks me when we were going to try again for our second child? it struck me wrong because we DID have our second child he just was too young to survive outside the womb. am i being petty to think this way? i know he wasn't trying to hurt me or be insensitive but it kinda hurt my feelings that he didn't acknowledge my sweet angel Greyson.