FRIENDZONED ??? URGENT

PLEASE READ NEED ADVICE !

So I’ve been talking to this guy for a while now. We FaceTime a lot and see each other a lot. Facetiming a lot like he was on holiday sharing a room with his brother still calling me every night for 2-5 hours. Every night when he’s at home for 5+ hours. Now I was catching hella feelings for this guy. He’s hella fine brilliant personality. We get on well. Similar style, taste, humour. Things were going well. I went to his today and we were having fun you know. But in conversation we were chatting about an insecurity he found in me where when someone gets negative with me I say tell me if your gonna leave because I’m prone to guys leaving without a trace. I’d like a bit a notice like any of you ladies would. He said that was a kick in the teeth for him because he thought that meant I thought he was like that, I said no it’s just when that happens to you in the past that’s what you’re prepared for. I said you ain’t like any guy I’ve met, obviously. He goes on. And then he says something that’s a kick in the teeth to me which is, getting into a relationship with you would be bad because relationships always end up shit, I like you I want you around. More as a life long friend. Like no baby no. I feel hella led on. I don’t know if that’s just me being salty ASF but I just need some advice now bc I have feelings and he just gave me the impression he was like willing to be with me to we are life long friends. Need some of your expertise Ladiessssss