starting to lose it

I try so hard. I try so hard to convince my husband to have sex with me. I've tried getting him turned on, and that works for the foreplay but it never goes to anything more and that kills my bone. we haven't been having sex for two months. I feel like I'm losing hope. I bought lingerie but he didn't touch me in it. I've bared my heart to him, telling him how unattractive it makes me feel and how unwanted I am. but he doesn't understand. I feel like I'm going to lose my mind, I'm so starved of affection. I just want to be touched and kissed and not be the one doing the touching and kissing. I want something back.