Last weekend my husbands ex wife asked if we could pick up my step daughter from school because she gets out early this week Wednesday Thursday and Friday. He told her I would pick her up and bring her to our house and she could come get her when she got off work. That was fine. So today he texted her and to make sure of the time and she told him to tell me to just pick her up and bring her home because she's 'busy'. So I texted her and told her my 2 year old naps at that time and we are getting ready to leave for vacation on Friday so no, I'm not going to pick her up just to take her home. Well she blew the fuck up called my husband and left him a voicemail calling us shitty parents and how he needed to 'control his stupid wife'. And she wonders why no one wants to help her! I never told her I wouldn't pick her up the next two days, I'm just not going to be a free cab service to her. Now she's texting him and going on and on about how SHE is a single parent and he never does anything for her blah blah blah the list goes on and on. Should I say something to her or just leave it alone? I want to so bad but I feel like it will just fuel the fire 😒