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recently lost my baby had op 2 weeks ago. I'm due back to work tomorrow morning. I can't help but feel so angry at everything I hate everything and just constantly irritable. I want to have a baby so so much and now I don't think I can because I can't let go of my beautiful baby. is this normal?? when did people try after having a misscarridge??

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I lost an ectopic last spring. I had two weeks off of work, and lots of help with my older kids, thankfully. I did not come out of my room much in the first week, mostly just cried. After two weeks, we had started to push forward, knowing we did everything we could, and gave that baby all our love. I know that baby is safe with the Lord, now!
We needed to wait a couple of months to start trying again, since I needed to date my pregnancy pretty carefully, in case there was another ectopic. I was scared to death! I had lost a fallopian tube with the ectopic, and if I had another, I might be done having kids! Instead, we got pregnant the first month we tried! We are expecting a healthy baby boy almost a year to the day from our loss. Do not give up, let yourself go numb a little and process in the background. Try to enjoy little things (like coffee with a friend, or chocolate) and don't think that anyone expects you to be  100% for a while! You will heal, though the scar will remain.

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Hi Leanne ❤️ I miscarried early December, and I felt (and still feel) the same emotions you’re going through right now. I felt angry, heartbroken, depressed..... it’s been 6 weeks since I lost my first baby and although it still hurts, I am definitely getting back to my normal self. At the time, I truly felt like the pain would not go away and I would never be the same. The feeling of getting everything you wanted, only to be ripped away..hurts. And you have every right to feel the way you do. Don’t feel like you need to grieve fast because you need to get back to work. I almost called out my first day back after, but I forced myself to go. I didn’t even want to be out at the grocery store! But I promise you, things get better with time. As far as TTC again, we started as soon as the bleeding stopped. Like I said it’s been 6 weeks, I haven’t gotten my period yet but I got my first positive OPKs the past two days, which is a step in the right direction! I’m so sorry for your loss and that you have to experience this. I wouldn’t wish these feelings on my worst enemy. Take care of yourself and start TTC again when you feel emotionally and physically ready to do so. ❤️

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