Last night my husband got drunk and climbed in to the bed with me. He wanted to have sex but we had already done it earlier and it was 2am so I said "let's just cuddle". He was fine with it but he still kept talking while I was trying to sleep. At one point he said "you know, it doesn't matter if you and I are heavy, were still beautiful in our own ways". I know that he was trying to say it in a good way but still, HE CALLED ME HEAVY! Like wtf, why would he think I wouldn't find that hurtful. I swear, he's so freaking clueless. 🙄😩

**EDIT** he was pretty much saying "society doesn't find you beautiful because you're big, but I do" which I don't appreciate because I thought I was average sized.