husband and I got in argument about Ttc, we've been trying for years,I been to specialist, had lap surgery and testing, he hasn't had sperm tested,but think that cause he has kids previously, he's not the problem,so we're both saying we're not worrying about a baby anymore, me personally I have two girls, 15,and 13, and will have to settle with that, he smokes weed, and smokes cigarettes daily, and doesn't think he the problem but we came to an agreement to stop trying,was just wondering was anybody else dealing with this??