What would you ladies do?

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I'd give her enough to pay for bills for a couple months while she finds a job - but no more than a few months worth. After that, I'd put some in a trust fund for the kids so that the mom couldn't touch it.

But I wouldn't give her any more than that.

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Nope. She took him on knowing she wasn't his wife. So she can keep on not being his wife! She already took my marriage bed and money that should've been between the husband and I. Hell no I wouldn't share- seems I shared enough with her for at least 7 years. She can go fly a kite.

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Man some of you are too nice. Almost makes me feel bad;) almost. Side chick was good with living like a prostitute but I'm not going to help her continue taking from me. He's a douche too for doing it, don't get me wrong, but their kids aren't my problem. I'd take the money, put in an overseas account and run. She's not going to see a dime even if she tried.

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I would give them a portion, it would be unfair not too. He had these children, and they need to be taken care of. If I already "live comfortably" 2.5 million is a lot for just one person!

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I just don't know. If he knew he had another family he should have put them in the will. Technically Is it your responsibility to take care of someone else's kids? I'm sure the courts would have to step in because this is tough. If I did help it would be because I felt bad for the kids. IF.

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No. The lady would most likely sue me so I'd likely have it decided with a mediator or judge present otherwise she'd likely ask for more money after I gave  her some. I certainly wouldn't just give her money. She probably should have worked all that out with my husband before he died.

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Probably not. If I did, it would be more minimal.  I would have some kind of legal document written up stating what it can be used for (for the kids) & what it can't be used for & that it would have to be audited each quarter or year to make sure she complied with the stipulations.

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I honestly don't know, probably. If I did it'd be in the form of a trust fund to ensure the kids would have access to the money. I wouldn't want her spending it.

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This would be so. Hard. I would probably give them enough to never have to see them again.

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I answered this already, but I wouldn't give them anything. I'm not nice.

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