How long have you been in a relationship before you knew you guys was ready for marriage or before breaking up?


In a resent conversation with some family and friends. I have been called crazy because I was in a relationship for 19 years before we got married. And the people around has either been dating for a year or 2, some was the other woman for 10+, some break up and fight all the time, and one couple have only been together 3 months then these people get married. Now I'm not saying play house for 20 years like I did, but at least be sure marriage is what you want because it is not a game. I love my husband and I would change how we went about it for anything.

Just wondering how long my glow friends was in a relationship before marriage or the break up.