Boyfriend/parent struggles

My bf and I just found out we are pregnant a couple weeks ago, totally surprised, protection failed. I’m going to move back home with my parents to save money, and was under the impression he would come with. Now my parents are saying since we aren’t married it’s a no go, I’m 24 and he’s 23. He’s an hour apart and they think he just needs to send money and visit on the weekends. I’m honestly outraged. Also please no negativity about my age and choosing to live at home. Am I over reacting?