Every relationship requires the sex?

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So I've had quite a few close experiences with guys that could turn into possible romantic futures. Every single one of them always had to have a sexual side to the relationship- I'm talking sexting and physical. Now if they came on too strong or needy or soon with the sexual side i lost all interest in a future with them...
It happened with every single one of them and I don't know... I guess ive had this idea of only being sexual after marriage or at least engagement. That's just not going to happen is it? Guys need their sexual side if they are going to be interested in you.
Like has anyone ever had a lasting relationship with no sexual side???
I think I have found the one... a total gentleman and lovely person all round, barely any faults. But again, the sexual side. I want to marry this guy and I'm just wondering if he feels more than just lust? I mean I know he says he loves me but I doubt he would be very happy if I quit being sexual with him. (Like I want to wait until marriage for sex but I just can't handle his look of dissapointment whenever I mention that... he totally doesn't want to wait- should I just give in and do what he wants?)
So is it a requirement? Do you girls think all guys need their sex?

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sex is not a requirement for anything at all. If you don't want to have sex then don't, and firm with it. If you are not wanting to have sex then say no.

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If you don’t have a strong sex drive, that is something you should absolutely disclose to your partner. He has a right to know. Tell him immediately. 
It sounds like you’re falling in love with someone, enduring sex for their benefit, and hoping that when you decide to stop having sex, he will settle for a sex-less life because “he loves you”. This is unfair to both of you because you are hiding a important aspect of your identity. He wants sex and you don’t. 
There are a million fish in the sea! Be yourself at all times. When you are authentic, you will form an authentic bond with someone who knows the real you and loves and appreciates the real you. 
You are unique. Accept who you are and don’t pressure yourself to be like everyone else. Don’t pursue a guy who would only love you if you pretended to be someone you’re not - hiding parts of your identity.
Trust that there is a guy out there right now who is just like you looking for someone just like you. Maybe he can’t find you because you’re wasting your time with guys who aren’t on your level?

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Where you messed up is having sex with him when you knew you wanted to wait. Think about if it were the other way around and you loved something that you two shared together and he says he doesn't wanna do it anymore lol. Sex is one of those things where you need to be honest from the beginning. Whether you want to have sex or not, what you're into, what your limits are, all that. Because dishonesty with sexual intentions can break a relationship and he has every right to leave if he wants. But it is possible to find a guy who's cool with it. I say lay it all out there and be honest with your guy and if he doesn't want to try then someone else will 🤷🏾‍♀️

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I know where your coming from and I know your suppose to wait until after marriage to have sex BUT...sex is a big part in any relationship! It brings you closer together, it’s so intimate and lovely. If you feel your with “the one” and you wanna marry him one day and you know he feels the same...then you two should become intimate with each other. Things aren’t like they used to be and things aren’t going to go the way you would like them to...so why not love him fully and let him love you fully...your relationship may get even stronger after the connection from sex. Good luck!

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No it's not all guys....
The issue I see here is sex drive and expectations. 
From the sounds of it your sex drive doesn't seem to be as high as they guys you've been interested in romantically. 
Also, are you going into these relationships letting these men know that you want to wait? Communication is very important. An aspect of romantic relationship is sex. You can stand your ground and wait, but you have to make the guys aware so they can decide if it's something they are willing to sacrifice for the relationship. There's nothing wrong with waiting, and there's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage. As long as both parties have agreed, it's all good. 
Some guys are willing to wait for a while as a sort of compromise, but people have sexual needs. And to deny these needs when they are evident is not the best. Again, this is where communication come in play. 
You just need to talk to the guy you're currently seeing. Lay it all out and discuss it with COMPLETE honesty. Despite how much you like each other, if you both can't compromise, it might not work out.

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If someone I'm just dating would say he wants to wait until marriage I would say it's not going to work because for me, sex in a relationship is important. Besides that I'm not sure if I want to marry someone, maybe after a couple of years, but then I also wanted to have sex with them because to me it's an important dynamic in a  relationship. However, if you want to wait until marriage, then you should. If you find someone you like and he respects that choice, then he's the one I guess.

Every relationship requires the sex?

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