How do you fully trust somebody after being hurt so many times before? I love my SO to pieces, but there are times that I question situations. Example: him and his ex wife share a child (not his biologically, he adopted) but she continues to feel the need to talk to him about things that don't even involve their child. I don't feel that that makes any sense, and he doesn't seem to understand that. I wonder, if the roles were reversed, if he would have a problem with it. What do you think? Am I just being completely irrational and crazy?