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Quick background - I have a healthy 21 month old from a previous relationship, text book pregnancy and labour apart from a 3rd degree tear. Anyway, been with my partner since September 16. We weren’t trying at this point but I found out I was pregnant in April, we where so shocked. Resulted in mc. Went on the pill immediately and came off again in August due to moods, acne and constant bleeding. Low and behold in October, pregnant! Also resulted in mc. After this and the feeling of being so down, we decided we’d try. Found out we where expecting again in December and again, mc. I’m only 21 so this is a massive kick in the gut. Got an appointment with a fertility specialist on the 23rd of feb. Does anyone know if I should continue TTC in the mean time or hold off? Sorry if this is the wrong place. 
Tia

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You could try taking vitex, which is an herbal supplement that is supposed to help balance out your hormones. Do some research on it and see if you’re interested. I’m taking it now and ttc.

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I have miscarried twice due to my blood type. I'm o- and my immune system sees an embryo/fetus as a foreign object and tries to attack. I have to get a shot to prevent it called rhogam. with my son, I had to get the shot at 5 weeks because it was a threatened miscarriage. if I didn't get the shot then I believe I would have lost him. 
good luck!

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I would imagine you're seeing a fertility doctor to get to the bottom of the miscarriages? Continuing to ttc between now and then of course is entirely up to you and your fiancé. There's nothing saying that any pregnancy between now and then will result in a miscarriage, you could have a perfectly normal pregnancy. It really is up to you guys :)
I would mention the possibility of a b12 deficiency to your fertility doctor. It's relatively new research but, there was a study carried out and the ladies who had had recurrent miscarriages showed to have a vitamin b12 level of 34% lower 
Supplements of b12 were given and 80% were then able to go on and have a normal pregnancy.

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I would honestly wait until you see your doc! 3 mc's in the medical world is huge when it comes to TTC, and you owe it to yourself and any future babies to make sure your body is in tip top shape so you can bring a little one in this world safely😊 I'm currently expecting my first child (due early sept) and I have a long history of endo, PCOS, and more. My biggest concern was that I would miscarry because of this. it absolutely sucked waiting and getting negative tests, but after going to a reproductive endocrinologist I felt MUCH better I've gone through the whole 9 yards to make sure I could carry a baby to full term. stay positive pretty lady😘 it sucks to wait but trust me on waiting so you can be checked out. A mc is hard on any woman regardless if it's the first one or the third and I wish nobody would have to experience the heartbreak of a mc.

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