so I'm 30 weeks pregnant with my first child.. me and my husband haven't had any sex or anything since I got pregnant "haven't felt the want for it" well I have become more and more sensitive down there not really sure why but I got checked by my doctor and about jumped off the bed and screaming how bad it hurt.. so I'm looking for advice on how to help stop that feeling or something.? creams, numbing stuff, ect... I scared to have sex now if it hurt so much so how can I fix that problem without the pain.. it feels like my husband hates me for not wanting sex and I'm scared that he will end up cheating (giving my past experiences with cheater) or not what to be with me anymore.. what do I do?