Hi Ladies.

I know that “time” in a relationship is very important. It shows how you care about your partner.

My SO isn’t cheating nor do I suspect anything wrong. He just works so damn much from 6A-11P daily. I appreciate and respect his hard work supporting our family. We hardly talk nor he hardly makes time with the family. He always tired and busy. When he tired I let him sleep. I’ll ask for like 10 Mins of his time before he showers and heads to bed, but I always end up talking to myself. I’m being patient, respecting he needs his sleep but it gets old. We talked about it and he said he will work on it and apologize. Of course just hearing him say that made me happy. It hasn’t happen yet. When he’s at work we only text 6 times total out of the 12-14 hours. I don’t call him to bug him unless its urgent or blow him up with text messages.

I wait for him, I do text him here and there saying “missing you” “love you”.

I just feel lonely and it will be nice to just sit and talk, that will make me the happiest. He always tired when it comes to me, he will try to stay up but I can’t tell he’s fighting his sleep.

I just want his attention, his time, his love.

We don’t have to go out, we can just be anywhere, the car, the park, the couch and just talk 😢

I don’t want this to ruin our relationship. He’s a good guy , good provider, always Home but sucks at giving us time and his attention.

He tells me he working for us and for our kids and he will go Hungry before we do but I told him “TIME” is important too!

Any advice?