Is my boyfriend being ridiculous or am I?

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Okay so I think you can basically get the whole situation just by reading these texts. There isn’t much else to say🙄

I am actually feeling bad right now and idk who is in the wrong😭😭 I wish he would call me. I didn’t tell him bc I didn’t know him super well yet and thought he would get mad and think I was using him if I told him I hooked up with his friend... I planned on telling him later but it never came up. 
What do I do?! Who is in the wrong?

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You’re in the wrong. Just give him some space and let him calm down, then later on  you can apologize. He has every right to feel and act that way because you lied and betrayed his trust. Also, the way you were talking to him over text seemed really snotty too. I wouldn’t want to speak over the phone with you either. Just wait for him to come to you.

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You should’ve just been straight up when he asked you. Regardless if it was before y’all dated. Safe sex includes knowing about all sexual partners. You shouldn’t have lied to him. He probably doesn’t even care that you fucked that Cody dude. What bothers him is the lying. If he did that to you, you’d react the same exact way. And I call bullshit if you say otherwise.

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shit ya he's got every right to be pissed. let him cool off then just explain

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Since it is his best friend then yes you should have told him. He does have the right. He was probably embarrassed finding out like that

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Your in the wrong girl. If you knew you hooked up w his bestfriend and then later on started dating him, you needed to tell him because they were bestfriends even if it was a one night stand and/or if it was before him

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You’re in the wrong 😢

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I think you’re in the wrong only because it’s his best friend.  I think it’s your choice who you tell about your past sex life in any other circumstance. But if my husband had slept with my best friend before me, I would have DEFINITELY wanted to know because I wouldn’t want to be with him. It would just be too weird knowing my best friend had sex with him. It would be awkward at get togethers and stuff because obviously my best friend would be there. Give him space and hopefully he’ll get over it. But if he doesn’t, I think it’s understandable.

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He’s being a little crazy and controlling tbh. It’s not like you’re secretly in love with this other guy or something, and if it was over a year before you guys were together, why would it be a big deal to him? 
And it doesn’t sound like you were intentionally lying to him anyway. And besides, again, why should it matter to him? 
The only thing I can think is that he just has a problem with the idea that you’ve had sex with other people and that gets a little slut-shame-y. 
Either way he’s in the wrong for getting so mad without having a real convo about it, and for making you feel guilty about your sexual past. 
Tbh he needs to apologize for his actions here. You can apologize for not telling him or whatever but you shouldn’t do anything more than that. You don’t need to beg for this guy or anything you did nothing wrong.

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Why is this via txt message?

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What does you having sex with someone before you even met have anything to do with your relationship now? Absolutely nothing. I find it weird that he is even bringing it up. It looks like he is just arguing for the sake of arguing.

Is my boyfriend being ridiculous or am I?

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