How do I fall back in love?

Question

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 19 months. We’ve came along way with him being unfaithful and lying. However, now that he’s doing better and being the man that I’ve wanted him to be.... I no longer want that. I’ve fallen out of love with him. Any advice on how to fall back in love with him? (I’m being VERY serious)

Answer

I was in the same boat as you a few months back. I recently got married after being together for 3 years. He was unfaithful at some point in the relationship, but it was mostly the lies that bothered me the most. I fell out of low with him at some point in the relationship but felt like I needed to stay and I’m glad I did. Falling back in low with someone that is like that isn’t easy. They have to work to get your trust back and you have to work to accept their trust. Its a team work type thing and both of you have to be on the same page to make it work. My now husband has been working hard to gain my trust back. I do trust him, but sometimes I wonder if this will ever happen again and it worries me but I keep moving forward. I think if he is trying to prove himself to you that he is a changed man, then I would believe him and try to work on your relationship. It will take baby steps to get back to the way things once were but it will never fully be the sane.

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Being in love shouldn’t be that much work. When I fell out of love with my ex’s I left them. Turns out I didn’t really love them at all. I found my soulmate and I’ve been madly in love with him for over 12 years. Met him in high school. Long story but I’ve met him several times before we started hanging out and dating. I even met his grandmother before I knew him....I kissed him when I was 8 years old at the beach. Found him again at 16 and didn’t know he was THAT boy until after we got married. The universe was pushing us together and boy am I happy 😊❤️ I say leave him and look for someone you can stay in love with.

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I fall out of love easily. It's just who I am, so whenever I feel that way towards my husband we do new and exciting things. We go see a movie. We go out to eat. We travel. We talk about our dreams again. We read our Bible and pray together because we are spiritual. We do all the things that made us fall in love in the first place plus new things. Falling in love is not a choice, but staying in love is.

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U can’t force falling back in love with him, allow it to naturally happen if it’s possible again and there might be a chance but maybe ur just going through a patch where u just feel like something is missing you know? How sure r u that ur out of love with him and what made you realize that you are if u don’t mind me asking ?

Answer

just break up with him honestly

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