Would it be upsetting if your boyfriend/girlfriend lost their virginity before dating you? Read description.

Question

So the guy I’m talking to already lost his virginity and I’m still a virgin. I always imagined this perfect scene where we were both lose our virginity to each other. It sorta hurts knowing I won’t his first if we do have sex, but i know it might be stupid to be upset over.

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My current boyfriend, hopefully husband one day, had sex with four other girls before me. And I had sex with three guys before him. Neither one of us like that we weren’t each other’s first but we strive to be the best with each other. When I get down about things he just reassures me that I’m better than the others and I try to do the same with him. Honestly it sucks but it’s just kinda something we both had to accept to be happy. Just don’t give up your virginity until your completely sure because girl, I was kinda guilted into losing mine and I regret it. I wish I wouldn’t have let him guilt me like that now that I look back

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Well he can guide you through it since he knows it’s your first time 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Girl I feel you. I dated this guy who already lost his virginity before me but i lost mine too him.

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Cheesy saying but very true,
You may not be his first, but you can definitely be his last 😉
And if that’s not comforting just know that virginity and the whole big deal around it is really kindof just a concept. Like I mean how many other creatures hold onto their virginities?

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i totally understand what your feeling and i think it is natural for people to feel that way especially when virginity means a lot to them. I think the more he positively reassures you and comforts you the more it’ll help ❤️

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It wouldn’t bother me. The past is in the past.

Would it be upsetting if your boyfriend/girlfriend lost their virginity before dating you? Read description.

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