Should I have sex?

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I’m 14 and a virgin. I’m super horny all the time, and I’ve given this dude a handjob a few times, I’m really attracted to him but my mom keeps telling me “sex messes with your mind and makes life complicated and worse” what do I do?

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I would listen to your mom and wait to get into that stuff.

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I would advise waiting. And sticking to masturbation hun

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Don’t do it. Unless you understand sex inside and out, are completely educated, are on birth control, you have a backup plan for if you get pregnant and you know this guy very well and trust him- it’s a really bad idea. I’m assuming you don’t have everything checked off on this list. I understand your urges but listen to your mom! It really DOES complicate things.

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Sex rewires your brain. It's also a huge amount of responsibility. I definitely discourage you from doing it at your age, when your brain is already in the process of rewiring for adulthood. You have plenty of time for adult activities. Masturbate, learn your own body, and wait a couple more years.
I had sex at 19 with the guy I'd been dating since 15. I picked the right time. Yours might be different, but I encourage you to give it at least two more years.

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If I were I would definitely wait. The wait is definitely worth it trust me.

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I lost my virginity when is was 13/14 was the worst thing I ever did and wished I had waited until I was older. It's a huge regret of mine and I was not well educated in that topic. you may want to feel like you want to grow up fast and have that experience but trust me... at your age it's shit lol the guys don't know what they're doing and will just hit it and get out without caring about you or your self esteem coz you are still children. seriously wait till you are at least 16 and understand it more and really are in a committed rrlationship... But it's your life

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Absolutely listen to your mom. I know you don’t want to because she’s your mom but she’s 100% right. I’m 14 and I just lost mine with my boyfriend and it made things so bad. We fight all the time now and I know we wouldn’t fight as much if we had waited til we were more mature. It made us both very attached to each other, yet we argue over everything it’s weird and honestly please just wait.

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wait a little longer

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technically it doesn't need up your life..but u are pretty young but i understand this is the age where you're hormones are bouncing and your sexual erges are high...ps..the first time hurts like a bitch

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She right. The human brain isn't fully developed until age 25, so at 14.....you're still getting there

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