So other than the actual bd how involved were your husbands or boyfriends in the ttc process? I sometimes feel like we aren’t preventing but not necessarily trying if that makes sense. I want to try preseed cuz I have heard good things and when I finally got him to give me a straight answer last night about he said let’s see what happens with out it first. We have been ttc for 6 months already. I don’t know. I love him and he really is amazing to me. Just curious if it’s normal for them to not be super interested in the process.