When did your newborn stay overnight with your ex?

Rach

I’m 34+5 and it looks like my relationship has come to an end.

I’ve just started thinking about what it’s going to be like and wondering when others had their newborn babies spend the night with the father? I’m planning on breastfeeding so not only will that make it really difficult but I just don’t feel like I could have my newborn spend the night without me.

This isn’t about me trying to keep the father from his child. We also have an almost 3 year old who would definitely spend nights with his dad and I’d probably send the baby during the day and then pick her up in the evening or something?

Thanks for any advice. Also wasn’t sure if this was the right place to post