meaty vagina?

okay so my boyfriend told me today he has never "been with a girl who had the same pussy as me". he said i had a "roast beef" vagina and he wasn't meaning to be offensive and he assured me he didn't care. I asked him if i was tight and he said "you're not the tightest i've ever been with" (which is my fault for asking) but now i'm even more self conscious about my lady parts! i've always hated my vagina and finally built up a little confidence but tonight kinda ruined that. are there any other girls on here that struggle with that?