I found a sex video in his phone

My boyfriend and I go to different colleges about 2 hrs apart. Over the weekend his school was having a big party so my best friend and I decided to go. Her boyfriend is my boyfriends best friend. We get to the school and there’s a lot of kids pre-gaming in my boyfriends dorm. We greet our boyfriends everyone’s already looking at us because obviously we’re not faces they usually see on campus, so I didn’t think anything of it. But there’s this one girl giving me this really nasty look. Now I’m a hot head so my first thought was to see what the hell is this girls problem

but I held back because this isn’t my school. We finally get to the main party once again more people looking at my best friend and I. But most of the girls were giving us nasty looks. Later that night we’re back at his dorm getting ready for bed. I wait for him to fall asleep and I go through his phone.

the way those girls were looking at me just didn’t sit right with me. I go into messages first and there are so many girls at least about 12-15. Right at the top there was a message that read “Is your girlfriend staying ? I wanted to stay with you” he never responded. I keep snooping going through his photos now there’s a bunch of girls sending him nudes and videos of themselves. I go to his email next and BAM that’s where I find 3 videos of him having sex with 3 different girls . These videos look like they could be on pornhub like they were going full throttle.

Anyways, so I’m pissed I go in the living room and cry my eyes thinking what I should do next. I cry myself to sleep. My best friend wakes first so I tell her everything and she says “what do you want to do now?” I’m like idk I just want to leave before I kill him in his sleep

She clearly doesn’t want to leave yet. So I’m like ok don’t sweat it You can stay even though we both know her boyfriend is cheating on her too because those girls were looking at both of us not just me. But I wasn’t mad I let her stay and I drove back to my school alone. He’s been contacting me ever since and I haven’t responded he doesn’t even know why I left.

———————————

UPDATE: we’re both home for the weekend. He showed up at my house. I had my brother tell him to fuck off and never come here again. My best friend told her boyfriend why I left him so now he knows. But I still haven’t spoken to him myself.

I’ve also been tested. I’m all clear ! I’m actually not too sad I think it’s because seeing those pictures, videos, & messages really grossed me out like I’m disgusted by even hearing his name. I’ll be graduating college this year so I’m ready to move forward from all the bullshit.

Thank you everyone for the support!