I am not despondent, i just stopped BC after my last cycle and from what i have read it can take anywhere from 1 to 3 months to start ovulating again. I did start testing for ovulation and it was all low days. Still having fun BDing, just trying to not overthink. I still feel blessed to have met someone who wants to have kids with me...at 37 I had ruled it out. But I am hoping that we will be able to. I will go to the doc if we can't after 5 or 6 months as others have suggest. Oh well...here to hoping the rest of you have lots of luck!!